Want to live a sexually empowered, turned-on life?

Coaching will help you develop and integrate the skills you need to have the emotional intimacy and sexual pleasure you desire.

There’s no time like the present

Start your journey with a consultation

In a complementary 20-minute consultation, we will explore your goals for coaching and share how the TurnON.love experiential coaching approach with help you achieve the growth and change you’re wanting. Discover how working with Dr. Aly or Seb will support you to cultivate more intimacy, pleasure, and love in your life.

How we’ll work together

Skill Building and integration

Intimacy is a skill that we’re rarely taught, but like any skill we can master it with with instruction and practice. We’ll focus on comprehensive skill building and integration using a wide range of experiential exercises both during and outside our sessions together.

Overcoming obstacles

We’ll uncover the underlying obstacles that are preventing you from cultivating intimacy and overcome them together. These barriers may include attachment styles, family dynamics, limiting beliefs, past trauma, unprocessed shame, and deep fears and insecurities.

 

Who this work is for

Individuals

Certain growth is best supported in a one-on-one context. Whether you need support dating or deepening intimacy in existing dynamics, individual coaching will help you strengthen your relationship with yourself and others.

Couples

Maintaining intimacy isn’t easy, and most couples need support attending to their emotional and sexual connection. Couples coaching will improve communication, heal conflict, reduce pressure, and deepen pleasure.

 
 

Coaching sessions are available for monogamous and non-monogamous individuals, couples, and groups both in-person and virtually. We also offer support to neurodivergent individuals and their partners. Folks of all relationship styles, kink preferences, sexual orientations, genders, races, neurotypes, and abilities are welcome.

 

  • “After several months of coaching, I've made faster progress than I have in the last 20 years of conventional therapy. For the first time in my life, I have hope for my future instead of fear. I cannot recommend Dr. Aly highly enough.”

    — K.A.

  • “We were struggling significantly and we hit the jackpot when we found Dr. Aly… She met us exactly where we were in our relationship, easily assessed our issues, and began a plan of action immediately. With her guidance, our relationship is the best it's ever been.”

    — M.C.

  • “Dr. Aly was nonjudgmental and comfortable talking about things that I’m not yet comfortable about myself…She got up to speed quickly with my situation, figured out the issues and constraints, and offered me down-to-earth, good advice. I wish someone like Dr. Aly had been there for me when I was a teenager.”

    — B.D.

  • “Coming from a conservative culture and family upbringing and having recently divorced…working with Dr. Aly was one of the best decisions I have ever made. Thanks to her coaching, I have been thriving in a wonderful relationship that actually accelerated and grew deeper during this otherwise dreary time."

    — Y.C.

  • “Dr. Aly has the uncanny ability to instantly clue in and identify core issues that are driving behaviors or actions - many times identifying things that we didn't even see for ourselves…My wife and I are already closer than we have been in a very long time. Dr. Aly is amazing!”

    — A.F

  • "I've worked with a number of therapists, psychiatrists, and coaches over the years. Dr. Aly blows them all out of the water, even the most extraordinary. She has brought my husband and I even closer together, both in communication and in the bedroom. I wish everybody could spend time with Dr. Aly one on one and at her workshops."

    — R.P

  • “I came to Dr. Aly feeling completely broken and lost. After working together for 6 months, I can say this experience completely changed my life. I learned so much about myself, my partner, and new skills to help us communicate more effectively.”

    — L.L

Some of the topics that can be explored through coaching:

 
 

Develop intimacy with yourself

  • Learn how to identify and own your wants, needs, and boundaries

  • Become embodied and better understand the wisdom of your body

  • Explore your emotional landscape and discover how to share it

  • Navigate breakups and heal wounds from past relationships

  • Overcome insecurities, pressure, fear, rejection, shame, and trauma

 

Gain vital communication skills

  • Express feelings, boundaries, and needs in ways that fosters connection

  • Discover more effective ways to deal with conflict and repair ruptures

  • Explore the nuances of seeking non-verbal and verbal consent

  • Learn how to talk about STIs and safer sex and safer heart practices

  • Improve communication before, during, and after sexy encounters

 

Date with confidence

  • Overcome dating anxiety and discover how fun dating can be

  • Get tips for creating successful profiles for dating sites and apps

  • Develop your natural flirting style and feel confident expressing desire

  • Develop a filter so you can determine if someone is a good fit for you

  • Learn how to navigate ethical non-monogamy dynamics

 

Deepen and sustain intimacy

  • Explore how emotional, physical and sexual intimacy intertwine

  • Cultivate vulnerability and develop trust so you feel known and safe

  • Learn to hold space and empathize instead of falling into fix it mode

  • Discover how to nourish intimacy over time and distance

  • Build skills to overcome your intimacy blockers, including navigating pressure, insecurities, shame, getting stuck in your head, parenting challenges, and stress

 

Maximize pleasure

  • Reignite your turn on and say goodbye to boring sex

  • Discover your fantasies and how to share and explore them with others

  • Learn how to seduce with romance, passion, and dominance

  • Develop creative solutions for bridging differences in desire and libido

  • Gain support with sexual dysfunctions including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, anorgasmia or difficulty orgasming, and pelvic pain for individuals

Let’s do this together.

It requires an extraordinary amount of courage to venture into the journey of self-discovery and sexual exploration, but you don’t have to do it alone. We’re here to support you wherever you are on your path towards sexual empowerment.