TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love
Want to get more of what you need and want in your relationships and sex life?
I’m Dr. Alison Ash and I know what's required to create the connections you desire. Sexual empowerment requires deep self-awareness and the ability to express yourself confidently.
When you’re fumbling in the dark, I’ll illuminate the way so you can turn on your light. Are you ready to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and...love?
I invite you to attend a workshop or schedule a coaching session for more personalized attention. I work with individuals, couples, triads, and more in-person and virtually.
Miscommunications are common, boundaries get crossed, and hurt feelings happen - but they don’t have to end in disconnection. Successful repair conversations allow for you to feel closer than ever before as you build trust and gain confidence in your ability to withstand inevitable relational challenges.
San Francisco, CA
So you’ve been dating for awhile, how do you know if you this person is a good fit for you? Are you afraid you’re settling, or perhaps being too picky? Discover your non-negotiables, making it easier for you to own your wants and needs, and develop your filter so you can have a deliciously nourishing relationship!
Exploring non-monogamy can feel overwhelming and downright terrifying, but with the proper preparation and support, it can be exciting and empowering! Learn about the different types of consensual non-monogamy and which will work for you. Discover the most common pitfalls and how to avoid them, and leave with concrete tips that will help you survive any poly exploration.
Have you been encountering obstacles and challenges in your non-monogamous relationships that you’re finding difficult to overcome? Already attended an intro to non-monogamy course* and ready to dive in deeper? Gain the insights and skills you need to nurture your connections and sustain the kind of non-monogamous relationships you desire.
Curious about your first play party? Have you been but felt unsure how to connect? Want to feel prepared to go with a partner? Play parties are a provocative way to explore your sexuality and relationships while connecting with others who also question the status quo. They can feel intimidating, but with these helpful suggestions, you'll be sure to rock it!
San Francisco, CA
We're rarely taught essential sexual skills for creating and maintaining erotic energy in our relationships. Want to learn how seduce your lover and make their fantasies come true? Want to know how to create more variety in your sex life? Discover how passion, romance, and dominance are at the foundation of sustained sexual satisfaction!
Are you tired of letting opportunities pass you by because you’re afraid to make a move in the #metoo era? Does flirting feel unfamiliar, awkward or anxiety-provoking? Guess what? You don’t have passively wait for others to initiate with you! Empower yourself and learn sleaze-free ways of seducing others!
I am a sex and intimacy coach, sexual empowerment educator, and author who has been exploring the intricacies of sex and gender for the past 15 years. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, I help my clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.
As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, I have a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. I draw on my extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support my clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves.
I design workshops and offer individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love!